Lindsey Leigh: If I put my leg up in this position, and a male partner plows into me and stimulates my clit, I squirt every time Why is it that we overhype some impractical positions while undervaluing great ones? Not to mention, the you-on-top sex positions space extends far beyond cowgirl and reverse cowgirl. Mounting your partner during sex has been around as long as sex itself, so the genre has seen its fair share of inventive iterations. Top sex positions can get as soft and intimate, as bold and dominant, or as adventurous and acrobatic as you want them to. The tone is yours to set. Merger It’s not entirely fair to call the Pearly Gates a modified version of Reverse Cowgirl. Because the position is more of a Reverse Cowgirl/Missionary hybrid than anything else.

So whether it's a one-off or your usual style, if you want to dominate or get the upper hand over your partner, try out these new positions where you will set the pace and take your partner on the path to pleasure! But as in sex we also like to keep things fresh, there are moments and situations where roles are reversed and the dominant becomes dominated and vice versa. This can happen during the same session: each partner experiences a new role and new exciting sensations. Misha Montana : As for traditional cowgirl, I'm an athlete, but I get tired too, and I think there's nothing less attractive than someone who's physically exhausted and just panting and grinding. There are plenty of other power positions that let you take control and make yourself cum. For a fun and flirty look, try pairing a printed sundress with cowboy boots and a straw hat. Add some silver jewelry to really stand out from the crowd.Nova Sky: Side-to-side spooning doesn’t get enough love. It's got all of the sensation of doggy, but it gives you more freedom to interact with your partner. Misha Montana: Communication with your partner is key to every aspect of a sexual relationship, so communicate your interest in and willingness to explore new positions with your partner.

For your inspiration, here are thirty ideas for positions where the woman is dominant because she controls the situation and the intensity of gestures and movements during the sexual act. Ryan Driller: Cowgirl is a bit closer to the real thing at home, only as a guy you're pulling her butt cheeks apart to let the camera see the penetration — as opposed to at home, where you grab and almost push her butt cheeks together tighter for the added pressure and sensation. Whether you're in need of some extra support or looking for a little extra stimulation, these expert-approved sex tips have you covered. 1. Take a break Charlie Forde: And it gives women the ability to adjust where they receive stimulation by the amount of pelvic tilt they do. You can really relax into it, enjoying the sensations without being contorted into a weird position. It caters to most physical capabilities as well. If you’ve ever done missionary with your knees hugged to your chest, you’ll recognize the Fifth Element—it’s exactly that, but with you on top. Ask your partner to lie down and pull their knees in as far as they’ll go. Then, kneel, straddling their legs, and lean forward until your chest is pressed to theirs.

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Kate Kennedy: You can explore variations on classic positions like this: I love throwing my legs over my partner's shoulders during missionary for great deep penetration.