Casual nudity may be fine and good when your little ones are little, but at some point, you might notice a difference in their comfort level — and yours. It’s a surprisingly controversial question that parents often don’t realize is even controversial until they talk to other parents who do things differently. Both sides have generally given it a lot of thought, theorizing about what’s psychologically helpful and harmful. Napping, especially power napping (20 to 30 minute bursts of shut-eye), has multiple benefits, from improving productivity to decreasing stress. But… READ MORE

As with all things parenting-related, just when you think you have something sorted out, it changes. It led to some interesting discussions, but she also didn’t freak out when she started growing pubic hair because she knew it was normal.” Con: Boundaries can get blurredIf you want to give fully-naked play time a go, try it outdoors, or indoors on a large, waterproof mat or a type of floor that’s easy to clean. Some parents, however, point out that this is an American sensibility and that things are different in Europe. Boy warriors from Abangan dashing to the field. They were participating in a performance where they would defend against a demon like character called Ciluluk.

Michaela That's really not a helpful or supportive comment. I see you are new to netmums, well this is a support forum where others come for help and advice. Not insinuating comments and to be told that her story is scary. You'll do well to learn that if you want to stay on netmums. Just remember never to make them feel bad for asking a question, no matter how mortifying it may be. Pro: You can promote body positivity and acceptance I’ve been very open with my daughter, and it helped open the door for questions she might have about her developing body,” says Sue from Massachusetts. Bartell suggests simply wearing underwear when in front of your kids, or even getting the message across by wearing a bathing suit without a big T-shirt over it: “Then your child can still see you’re embracing your body.”When kids are very young, the consensus seems to be yes, since babies and toddlers are generally oblivious to nudity. Even physically modest parents can destigmatize nudity by not rushing to cover up if their child inadvertently sees them,” says Huebner. “Instead, calmly say something along the lines of ‘I prefer to be alone when I am using the bathroom’ or ‘I’ll talk to you when I am dressed,’ without making a big deal out of the encounter.”

While other families may instead opt to talk about body safety in different situations, there’s something to be said for that kind of clarity, says Susan Bartell, PsyD, a New York-based child and parenting psychologist. And now is when it gets tough! Staying in this rawness and not running away and putting all my guards up again! thats the hard part. If you’re very clear what the boundaries are, then that child has no question whatsoever,” she explains, adding that kids don’t have the cognitive ability to understand nuance. “It is never OK to see an adult man naked — that is clear for that child.” While Bartell believes it’s always OK for children to be naked around their same-sex parents, she says a different dynamic eventually develops with mothers/sons and fathers/daughters. Pro: You can teach the difference between nudity and sexuality Whenever it’s warm and safe to do so, consider stripping your baby down to her diaper. If you’re brave you can take that off, too (more on this below). Being naked promotes different areas of her development, including:

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Then, as kids get older, boundaries aren’t always their forte. Says mom-of-two Brigette, “They keep barging into the bathroom, so why not?” Con: You’re going to get awkward comments, questions, and stares